I get so shy around a guy, I don’t know what to do, any advice or tips?
How do I become less awkward around the opposite sex? I get so shy, embarrassed, my brain dries up, I smile a lot, and I turn red while trying avoiding eye contact. I’m a very pretty girl as-well and it just sucks how nervous I get around an attractive guy.
There was this one time on the bus an alright looking boy was staring at me, and I looked over at him eventually and asked ‘what?’ he then said ‘you’ve got beautiful blue eyes’. I looked over at my friend and laughed, my brain froze up, time stood still and I blurted out ‘awkward!’ he looked back at me and was shocked by my response, I was so humiliated, I completely blew it!
Then this other time my friend introduced me to a boy I liked, never met him before but had my eye on him, we were finally meeting and he said ‘you have really nice eyes, and a pretty smile’. I said thank you than things got so very quiet, I told him ‘I’d be right back and ran away back to my group of other friends, I never came back, he was still standing there with one of my friend laughing and she was shrugging her shoulders. : |
I’m almost 17 and have never kissed a boy, hugged one, held hands with a guy or anything and obviously I’m a virgin but in no rush anyway to have sex, I’m trying to follow my modeling and traveling dreams as-well as my education. But I’ve only had two boyfriends both started out as real close male friends than I ‘dated’ them for less than a month, I reluctantly call it dating because both times I was only 10 and 14. I haven’t dated since.
I’m about to be spit into the real world and don’t want to be this inexperienced shy girl who has no social skills when it comes to talking with a guy, do you have any tips or advice? Should I upfront tell the guy I’m a timid girl?
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aww :]. Well keyword is be confident in who you are. If you like yourself then the person you will like you for that. I still get shy around girls but as you keep on talking to different people you get the hang of it. Do not put yourself down, theres many many boys in the world. Same i think about girls, you miss one chance, dont worry there will be another. Just be yourself and if you like yourself there is no reason for the other person not to like you.
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Talking to guys is tough. But all you have to do is be yourself. Like talk to him just like u talk to his friends. You’ll be more comfortable that way. And remember, practises makes perfect. Good luck<3 (:
I totally understand your situation and the best advice that i can give is be yourself. the only time that i become shy or awkward is when i am afraid that someone wont like me or i am uncomfortable with who i am. When you forget about what people may think then things with the opposite sex wont be so weird. You also begin to build your self confidence when you begin to accept your self, and most guys find that attractive. just be yourself.
I think you should warm up to the challenge – you know there is a game in play out there, and you don’t want to flub it.
Rumor has it there are sensitive guys (we mere mortals usually refer to them as "musicians") who are actually capable of carrying on an easygoing conversation for at least five minutes without mentioning your eyes. Go watch the scenes in "Beautiful Girls" with Uma Thurman and Timothy Hutton for inspiration
I know this is very light advice, but I think you could do very well by finding some "chill" people to hang out with for awhile until you are ready for the sharks.
Good luck!