Is asking for dating tips smart, or weak?
See I think there are pros to asking for dating tips from like a brother or friend who is successful, because they can help you out, and give tips. what to avoid, good ideas and all. which could give you an advantage right? you’ll have a better understanding than if you went about something without a clue.
but i’m also thinking is it a good idea or bad? is it better if I just go and do what my mind feels like doing, and then seeing what happens? and learning? or what? also i do want to feel like everything that i did, was me. and not really someone else, because i got the tip and help from others. like i don’t want to be a script, and be acting. i want to be real too. so what do you guys think about getting advice from people? good? bad? please share. thanks.
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I think looking for tips on how to deal with the opposite sex is very smart/useful. I know its helped me interact with guys. Use your own words to say what you want to say and keep in mind that girls can be radically different from each other. (For example, my former roomate loved being romanced with poetry and heart-shaped candy; I thought it was cheesy.) But actively studying the opposite sex pays off.
You can learn what the generalities are and get better at accurately applying them to individual women. For example, women (*generally*) like a challenge. But there are girls out there who will just feel frusterated and insecure if the guy is kind of hard-to-get. Do the research and you’ll get better at learning which girls like what.
You can also learn stuff about how to talk to us. Like that girls prefer to talk face-to-face and men prefer to talk side-by-side? Or that approaching a girl is really no big deal/shouldn’t be embarassing as long as you keep it brief and walk away first? Or that, for many girls, being receptive to hearing about the stupid trivial parts of their day is a turn on?
Just for kicks, I once went online and looked up "Dating Advice for Men" just to see if the people online giving the advice actually knew what women wanted. Turns out, there was some crap out there, but a lot of the advice was solid. I say go for it. With time and research, you can not only learn from your experiences and mistakes, but also everyone elses’. ^_^
Ummm…
you worry way too much, dude. Lighten up. There’s no script. People like confident people. So relax! Be yourself already. That’s a smart thing to do. Advice is good, yeah, but it only works if you judge it for yourself.
Take It Easy.
I think asking for tips, help, or whatever you want to call it is smart. In any situation, not just this one. But sometimes, dating tips are essential if you want to succeed. I used to be the kind of guy that had great ‘girl’ friends and I still do but now I’ve got a great ‘girlfriend’. And it’s mainly due to these sites http://www.dating4usite.info and http://www.datinginformationsite.info Good luck!