I really need some adult advice…singles & dating section isn’t helping?
Back in December I started seeing this awesome guy "Rod". Everything was perfect about him. He is 22 AND HE HASN’T HAD A GIRLFRIEND SINCE HIGH SCHOOL. So I believe he’s scared of commitment Well after seeing him for about 4 months he never kissed me, but we would hang out all the time. He’s a very laid back and SHY type of guy.Eventually we had sex and he still didn’t kiss. I started to think that maybe he was after one thing. When I was with him and my phone would ring he would always playfully ask "Is that your boyfriend?" or if I went out to the club he would ask me "Did I get any numbers?". WHY WOULD HE ASK ME THOSE QUESTIONS??? Eventually we stopped talking
Well in June I started seeing this other guy. He calls me all the time and he takes me out. Well we recently just started having sex like 3 weeks ago. Although were not boyfriend and girlfriend yet. The only thing about him is that we only see each other like once out of the week or sometimes once every two weeks. I dont have a car and he stays about 25 minutes away from me. He also works monday -friday and goes to boxing pratice afterwards. I like him alot but we only see each other like 3 times a month!!!
Well I recently ran into "Rod" and we have been conversating over the phone. For the last 3 weeks he comes to see me at least 2 or 3 times each week. Well we all ready had sex in the past. I went over his place the other day and he tried to pursue sex. Well I stopped him because I’m all ready having sex with the guy that I’m seeing. Also we Kissed that day but it was only for like 3 SECONDS!!
I went back on his place tonight and tried once again. He asked me what the problem was because we had sex before and he asked me was I sleeping with somebody else. I told him no!! Now he thinks I’m playing games with him. I really still like him and if I could I would want to build a relationship with him
HE PUT A CONDOM IN MY PURSE LAST NIGHT AND TOLD ME TO KEEP IT!! WHAT DOES THAT MEAN??
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Tags: 4 months, boyfriend and girlfriend, condom, having sex, kiss, laid back, playing games, purse, Relationship, shy type
not everyone enjoys kissing. I hate the feel of a person’s
breath and all that slobber gives me chappy lips.
you lied to the guy when you said you weren’t sleeping with
someone else. that wasn’t good.
I don’t know why you want a relationship with this guy,
he sounds like the type who could get real possessive,
and that’s a nightmare.
forget about him.
how much do you like this boxing practice guy.
stick with him if you like him a lot.
if you don’t like him enough to have a long term
relationship with him, you really have no business
having sex with him. keep your pants on
until you find the special someone you want
to be with forever! (ever heard of VD?)
You got no solid answers because you’re too incredibly naive to read between the lines. He now wants what he cannot have. Duh. If you are still interested in Rod, drop the other guy respectfully and move on. If not, then don’t pursue anything further with Rod.
Silly girl, Keep the Condom huh? I’d say he thinks your having SEX with someone and its NOT with him only ?
It sounds like both these guys just want sex.
The kissing sounds like he just doesn’t like kissing, i wouldn’t think it means he just wants sex.
But the fact that he hasn’t seen you for a long time, won’t date you but WILL have sex with you makes me think he just wants on thing.
He hasn’t had a girlfriend since he was 22……..maybe because he likes flings?
Both guys sounds bad.
I think you should ditch this guy. I think you like him ONLY because he withdraws something from you (kissing), so it looks more attractive for you. Thats with all people – we all want what we cant have.
anyways, about the condom in the purse – probably he put it so that it would cause problems if the boxer boy accidentally found it. Alternatively he might have put it just to make you wonder and thing about him. Men also play games.
Honestly both of these guys just want sex. The thing is wen u want a relationship with a guy u cnt have sex with him becuz then u get confuse n start 2 question if he really likes u or if he wants sex. ROD ONLY WANTS SEX!. he hasnt seen u n a while n wen he does c u and u r at his place the thing he ask u for is SEX! THATS BAD. it means that since u had sex with him already without any commitment he thinks he can still get some from you. If u really want to be with rod stop having sex with him n tell him wuts on ur mind. tell hmi that ur not jus some booty call and that u want more then sex. If he says he not ready to commit or he doesnt want a relationship rite now it means he only wants sex. Also dnt let him trick u into waiting around for him okay. Second, the other guy that u met: When a man really likes a girl he will try hard to see her, to make some time for her. So if he not tryin 2 make time 2 c u or he keep tellin u excuses its cuz he only wants sex. DNT IGNORE YOUR GUT FEELING OKAY!!!. tlk 2 these guys and ask them where their head is at n if u feel that somethin aint rite then most likely it isnt okay.
the condom is for when you to say yes to him he’ll have a condom there. He’s a keeper staying protective for you. You should let him tap that
I think Rod is a little different. He’s pretty inexperienced with women and doesn’t know how to act around them. He may be interested in a relationship beyond sex, but, he hasn’t shown it.
You haven’t said what you are looking for, but, the guy you are in a relationship now seems like a better guy.
Well you’re crossing 2 river at a time. The reason Rod gave you a condom because he thinks that you are not telling the truth to him and your seeing other guy and engaging in sexual activity. He gave a condom to you so you can give it to whoever your been with. So you can be SAFE.He still cares for you. But you should have told him in the first place that you are seeing somebody…it’s unfair on the other guy…you are seeing Rod but you’re seeing the other guy too!