Am I crazy? I met a man on a dating site on-line. He lives 5 hrs. from?
March 14th, 2010 by admin | Posted in Adult Dating Sites
me and wants to fly here this coming weekend to visit. I don’t know what to do; I live alone – both girls are away at college and i don’t have family in the area. I am 53 and he is 41. I don’t think this is a good idea – but I desperately need other opinions also. He seems very nice but who really knows? Any advice would be very much appreciated.
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hmmmm – I have met pretty decent men from dating sites – so far I have dated three men that I met online – we met in public places and had a really good time…….in fact, I have a HUGH crush on this guy I met online lol…we have been dating now for 5 months….but safety is always FIRST……it doesnt matter if they seem nice over the net, you never really know how they truly are until you meet them in person, remember that you are taking a big risk, even more so because this guy is flying in to see you, where is he going to stay while he is there? I hope not at your place……..no you are not crazy…its good to be concerned…… but dont be foolish
you should be honest with him and tell him how you feel – tell him that you are a bit uncomfortable with the idea of him coming to visit you – follow your gut and rely on your experience….dont get yourself caught up in something that you will regret
Don’t let him know where you live and meet in a public place.
Why not? It doesn’t mean you have to have him over your place. Simply make it clear that he has to find his own hotel and make sure you are in public view at all times. Could be a good ice breaker. If he cant understand your concerns, then you should stop talking to him. DO NOT let him know where you live.
No way.. I would say get a few friends or family together and meet him in a restaurant or something but……….He is fluing here and that means that he cannot just drive home. You might be stuck with this guy. and he can be a big loser. Please don’t do it for your safety
I would definitely meet in a public place and play it as safe as you can. There’s no need in taking unnecessary chances. Keep your fingers crossed, this could be the beginning of something wonderful in your life. Best of luck.
well at least he spent a lot of money to meet you since airplane tickets are not cheap.
it means he is really interested in you.
why don’t you go to the airport and welcome him?
make sure you stay with him at somewhere public ( coffee shop, restaurant, etc)
don’t give out your home address
even if he invites you to come to his hotel room, just politely say no.
How much do you know about this guy?? What does your instinct tell you to do? If it says this is bad, I wouldn’t meet him.
Please BE CAREFUL. I know people meet on the net all the time, but I am just generally leery of it. Make sure you take into consideration how long you have been talking to him ect. Also, you could ask if he has a myspace. At least then you could possibly see some of the people he knows and maybe talk to them. Or, you could see if he would meet you on your turf first. If you decide to do it, make sure someone knows where you are and has his contact info. Remember, though, a woman’s intuition is usually right.
Congrats on your girls going to college! Best wishes.
I think it’s normal to be a little worried, b/c like you said "who really knows"…but I can tell you that I was the same way. I started talking to this guy online as a joke & it turned out we had a lot in common, he kept asking when could we meet & I would never follow through…one day I let him come to me & the rest is history…4 years later & we’re getting married next month. So if you don’t ever meet him who knows what you could be missing out on? However, I think it’s smart to be cautious (like you are)..if you think you want to meet him do it in a public place & suggest that he get a hotel room for himself. You don’t have to tell him where you live, just meet him at a restaurant or wherever. If you keep having bad feelings about meeting in person then maybe you shouldn’t or just tell him that your worried about meeting at this time, talk to him about it…hope my suggestions help a little…good luck!
hmmm,,, it denpends on how much you know of this guy. If you are very familiar, and you have many phone contact, you may tell him directly. If you two are not very familiar, just meet him in public place. Many singles meet in dating site are looking for sex in the first face to face meet.