Why is it so simple for a girl to decide she doesn't like a guy?
OK Yahoo, I’m looking for some enlightening info here…might be long. Please read all of it.
I have been friends with this girl for a while now, pretty good friends. She starts liking me about 2 months ago, and I start liking her, so we starting dating in mid february. She broke up with me two weeks later saying she didn’t think of me as any more than a friend.
Now I’m placed in a difficult spot…beyond being kind of hurt at such a small chance that she gave me, she still wants to be friends but its a little bit harder for me. I don’t want my feelings to get in the way of us being friends again, but at the same time it hurts me a little to see her and not be her boyfriend. I know we only dated two weeks, but it was like taking a step in a direction with her I really wanted to go but I felt she didn’t give me a real chance to do so. And I still have some jealousy for her, which I know is my problem, but I would feel pretty bad if she got with somebody else anytime soon, but her business is her own I suppose.
I’ve been on this path before, and I could, not avoid, but not take any initiative to be her friend anymore and not bother to talk to her and eventually she would be out of my life. This has happened to me before. Or I could push past my feelings of liking her and just try to be her friend. I don’t know how difficult the second option will be, because when I see her I am still attracted to her.
I guess I could take a break from seeing her, but I don’t really want to do that. I want to hang out with her, but I guess I’ll have to accept the fact that she doesn’t see me any more than as a friend?
That question is over, and feel free to answer the initial one, why is it so simple for a girl to decide she doesn’t like a guy? She just wakes up one day and says I have no attraction to you anymore?
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.It is fairly easy for most people to figure out they do or do not have a connection with someone. Why date for months when a date or few gives you the answer? She did you a favor by not dragging it out. Sorry you don’t like her decision, but it’s never taken me more than a date or two to figure out if I like a guy enough to keep dating him.
Case and point…I met a guy online about a week ago and we decided to meet for dinner last night. Nice guy, friendly, personable…but I felt absolutely nothing toward him at all. Nothing. He just wasn’t a good match for me, although he made it clear he wanted to see me again. That spark is either there or it’s not…I could see him again but I have no desire to and wouldn’t feel right leading him on. He asked me out for tonight and I declined. He’s better off free to meet someone who might be a good match for him…and so am I.
Sometimes the chemistry just isn’t there…it happens. Sorry she didn’t feel the same way you did but at least she let you know.
nigga, u just got played!
friends and girlfriends just do not mix, it was doomed from the start, if you have been a friend with someone for a long time it will not work because you would have found chemistry long before and woudnt have been friends in the first place. suck it up and enyoy playing the field, if you want to annoy your friend go out with her bestfriend and shower her with gifts make it look like you are the perfect catch.