My cheating girlfriend wants to me forgive her and start a fresh?
I was in a long distance relationship & she who would repeatedly tell me that she loved me madly and was totally commited. We discussed marriage. We talked for hours a day despite the distance. She would be very uncomfortable with me going out on weekends. So I would stay in and talk to her. However when I would call her in her time zone during her weekend nights sometimes she wouldnt answer. After this happened for the 7th time I wouldnt let it go until she told me the truth. It took two months of me pressurizing her but she finally told me that she used to go clubbing with her ex bf. Also she dated men off an internet dating service. She admitted to sleeping with atleast 3 men including her ex bf. I dont knw but there may be others. During those 18 mos we met up around 5 times.She used to portray herself as an angel who could never look at another man. She says this happened bcause of the distance she wants to move in with me in my city or I with her. Will she cheat again?
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A cheater will always be a cheater
hard to say….she might be one that needs to be with a man …if that is the case then she probably wouldn’t if you were together….think hard and do what you feel is right…good luck
You must go with your feelings on this one. Of course there is a chance she will cheat again, however, there is a chance that she is being sincere. So, you must examine yourself, your heart. And do what you think is best. Good luck to you and God bless****
yes, she will cheat you again, and again, my girlfriend done the same, I always forgived her, but…. she still cheated, that`s life
hey man i suggest u not 2 go for it! now-a-days girls chea A LOT! b4 it was d guys..its now d girls..if she really loved u or watever it was she would have done sumthin like this..i feel she is tryin on u again.DONT
i don’t know if she will or not. but if you truely love someone you shoyuld give them another chance..
Take it from someone who just had that done to her.. can relate..well yeah thats i feel.
but if you don’t truely care and want to spend the rest of your life with this girl then i don’t think you should.
Chelsea-
blow her out
Long distance relationships never work in my exp. people need sex, even "angelic" women need to get fucked on some kind of basis…
If she comes back just treat her like an f-buddy or something, but whatever you do, get over her. She’s definately not marriage material!
She sounds like she’s seriously lacking in self-esteem, self-confidence and self-restraint! Due to a severe case of insecurity, she seeks reassurance in the form of attention/sex/"love" from many men. Distance and loneliness is not her problem, so you two living in the same location will not drastically improve her behavior.
What she is offering you is a chance to dote on her, love her, be faithful to her and to be used for all of these things and abused by her need to seek these same types of fulfillment from other men as well.
If you’re a man who knows what it means to committ (on any level B/F, Husband, whatever) to a woman, then do yourself a favor, meet a nice woman who can do the same at home. You’ll save yourself the expense – monetary and emotional – of a move to a new city.
alrighty boy. here goes.
if you still love (like) her, by all means go ahead and start a fresh.
But let me tell you, it will NEVER EVER be the same anymore.
What I suggest is, you can accept her back. But DO NOT be too commited. I mean, hey, who knows she might cheat on you again. reality is such a bitch, I know. But you gonna know how to let go. By not being too commited, if she ever cheats on you again, at least you won’t be too hurt as she had done it before. What I mean by commited is, never love her too much. Or rather, don’t let yourself fell hard in love with her again. Show her who’s the man.
Dont dig your own grave bro, I repeat ,do not dig your own grave. Leave her, a cheating woman is as deadly as a snake in the grass, she is not the one for you. unless if you also secretly cheated then you may forgive her coz you also be guilty. But sleeping wiht three guys is jus too much, if she had jus slept with one (maybe the ex only) then you could forgive her, but THREE?, sorry bro but distance or not she is a S.L.U.T, sorry but its the truth, imagine all she did with those three, sucking their cocks probably they came in her mouth as well
Hey men be careful, reconsider your decition,girls will always be girls,you might not know the next person you’ll be jumping to.
probably she might even be worse.
streach her a bit n take her back , I know is not easy but try if u really love her
Am telling u this cos I’ve been there
After aways keep talking to her
Good luck
Distance had nothing to do with it–at least the distance between the two of you, that is. The distance between what she says she is and what she actually is, of course has everything to do with it. Of course she’ll cheat again. She may actually believe it when she says she won’t–but she will.