Ladies, why do some WOMEN have something against meeting or courting with a GUY over the "internet" ?
Or some may be rather reluctant. Morning ladies and gentleman. I
ask the questions we all want to know. And you know me, I am not
afraid to ask them. So now. Some women have something against
meeting guys over the internet. We understand that we are living in
perilous times. And people are very dangerous nowadays. You cannot
trust everyone or everybody. You just have to be careful because
you never know what you are going to get on the other side. And
that other side could be the internet. Online dating services are
everywhere, and they take precautions when necessary for others
sake. But even then, you still do not know the person as well as you
may think, in spite of all that they have told you. People lie you know,
and are extremely deceptive. Some might tell you that they are living
the single life, and they could be married with 3 children. He, he. But
what do you think about meeting people over the internet, or trying to
get to know someone until you talk to them on the phone. Next thing
you know, they are at your doorstep. Mwuaaaaaahaaaaahaaaa.
But hey, you meet people at garbage dumps, sleezy clubs, the side of
the road, or even at the post office. So what is wrong with the internet.
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I dunno. I met my husband on the internet.
Some people are reticent because dating over the internet is seen by some as a last resort, for people who can’t find a date through conventional means. It can be a valid way of meeting people, but the stereotype means people may not want to admit to it. Wrong topic, btw.
oh i dunno maybe because you might be a psycho killer wanting to wear my skin as a robe
That "hehe" of yours makes it sound like you’re living a double life, lol.
I see nothing wrong with meeting people on the internet. I realize that when you meet someone face to face….you may be more likely to sense if something isn’t right with that person…but we’ve all made bad judgments before. You can meet a scumbag anywhere…..but you can also meet someone really amazing.
I think a it has to do with two things…
First humans learn and pick up a lot about each other by nonverbal communication. Tones, body language, scent/pheromones ect. None of which are possible over the internet. Even if the person is honest in words, and facts over the internet, sends a real pic…in person the feeling could be completely different b/c of these nonverbal signs.
Second, internet dating…is beginning to be but isnt completely acceptable. Most people know a few "success" stories/couples that meet online. But it’s still considered taboo, and a last resort.
but really…who picks up someone at a garbage dump? (lookin 4 love in all the wrong places)
I have meet a few guys over the internet. Not too many, only 2. And luckily they both turned into relationships, one lasted 3 yrs.
However, the second you tell someone you met online they constantly make fun of you, and act like you cant meet someone in person. Now I am a good looking girl and never had a problem meeting anyone, but to me I feel more of a connection talking to people BEFORE meeting so I don’t have to hear stupid pick up lines, or they get so nervous and don’t know what to say.
I think that other people do look down on dating sites, so it scares people away from using them…aside from all the reasons you mentioned as well.
Meeting someone in person, you at least can pick up some of the possible lies if you’re halfway decent at reading people. Online is completely anonymous. There’s no way to verify that the things a person says about him or herself are true. You can’t even tell if the picture being posted is actually their picture. You know absolutely nothing until you get to the point when you "trust" the person enough to meet them.
As for me, I was online before the World Wide Web was accessible to the public. I would visit chat rooms and it was a given that everyone lies. It seemed to be a competition to see who could come up with the most completely lie. And it was entertainment. But I go online today and I still have that screaming in the back of my head, "everyone LIES" and I can’t bring myself to trust people on those dating sites. I prefer to still meet people in person.
What are you talking about?
I’ve met lots of women over the internet. Two of my high school mates met their wives on the internet. My brother met his wife on the internet. My son’s mother met her new husband on the internet.
Go on to any dating site and you will see lots of women. If it’s a free site, about half of them are spammers, but you can usually figure out which ones are fake (the fakes have grainy pics from enlarged stolen thumbnails, or look like models).
There are a lot of people who lie or fudge the truth on the internet, both men and women – men lie about their height, while women tend to lie about their weight, and both lie about their ages, but I’ve really not had that many problems with misrepresentation.
Back before the WWW was public, people hooked up on MUDs and IRC. Perhaps there is a stigma because the internet facilitates the quick hookup, but it’s also useful because it allows you to easily expand your circle of potential mates, so you aren’t picking the same people in the same circle of friends you usually see. This is nice because if the relationship goes sour, they’re not already friends with everyone you know and go everywhere you go.
Like any other way of meeting people, it has its advantages and disadvantages. But lots of people are using it.
I met my guy in FUBAR…been chatting for over a year and met him in person….been together ever since. He’s AMAZING
if i was single, i wouldn’t have anything against meeting guys through dating sites. however, i would probably not meet up with anyone i just started chatting to with yahoo messenger. 90% of the guys i’ve chatted with on messenger are extremely sketchy and creepy.
a guy at my university got dubbed ‘the myspace killer’ after he raped, killed, and cut into pieces a girl he met online at myspace
you have a good point, but just speaking for myself, personally, i just wouldnt want the internet to be the source of my relationships.. i just wouldnt want it to start here… altough i have met some nice people over the internet, i could have easily started dating, but i just choose not to.. for several reasons… im sure every woman has her own reasons..
because 99 precent of the time..
it never works.