Trouble With My Dad? Please Read?
Okay. This is a little long-winded. Sorry x
Around May 2008, I found my Dad on Friends Reunited Dating claiming that he was divorced and had no children.
Since then, he’s just progressed to becoming more unfaithful. For example:
- He’s created a Facebook account with 500 women friends who he doesn’t know. 1 of them being a prostitute who works in the Birmingham area. About once a month he’ll go up to Birmingham claiming he’s on a work trip.
- He has sent messages to other women saying, "And I thought I was all yours now?", "Is anybody in?" and, "I’d really like to see a picture of you, if you wish, we could keep it between us two?"
- He has a woman (Early 20’s) on his block list who has all of his facial features. Nose, eyes etc. Is he hiding something?
- He has adult sex sites in his history. For example, "Free! Adult sex chat site! Find horny singles near you!" etc. About 5 of these, that I found. Who knows if there are more.
- He has around 4 different email accounts, that I know of. Again, who knows if there are more.
So I spoke to Childline and explained to them how I’d already tried to speak to him twice about it already but he’d continued with his actions. They strongly adviced I didn’t speak to him about it again. Today I went and confined in a teacher who I strongly trust and he recommended that I speak to him about it?
What do I do? Do I speak to him? If so, what should I say? Please be aware that my Dad has a short and violent temper. Also, I’m 16, my sister is 13 and he’s been married to my Mum for 25 years.
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My heart goes out to you…….You need to tell your mother. She has a right to know. Also, she will protect you and your sister. All of you need to leave now. You need not speak to your father about this. This is an issue that you need not be involved in. I hope you and your sister and mother, can find peace.
Wait, your sister is 13, but she’s a he and has been married to your mum (LOL@mum, british people) for 25 years? WTF is going on here?
WOw thats alot to swallow. and your 16? thats crazy. i would tell your mom.
If he has a short fuse and violent temper, I would want my father to leave, especially after seeing all this BS. I would tell your mother, print the proof, but she may already know, and doesn’t care anymore. Honestly, my mom got mad when I told her what I thought about my dad, apparently it didn’t bother her like it bothered me. And it’s their marriage, not mine.
But if you want revenge, delete his sites/email profiles completely. Sure he will set it up again, but I would keep deleting them, and messing with them. Obviously, you are not too afraid of your father, your still snooping on him.
Stay out of it. You’re not going to change him by confronting him about it. I’m sure your mom is aware of this behavior to some degree. What he is doing is between them. No need to add more problems by trying to get in the middle.
Inform your mom about what you have learned about your dad and let her deal with it. Don’t advice her or speak to your dad about anything. It is none of your business.
As long as he is your dad and treats you like his child in person, then do not involve yourself in his adult mess. Yes he is wrong, he sounds creepy, etc, etc, but you need to keep in your own stuff like your studies, your own friends and things like that.
Speak to your dad but don’t bring up his sex life, just as you would not bring up his sex life with your mom.
If things get bad between your parents because of his unfaithfullness, then you support your mother and continue to treat your dad in the best way you can. Later on, if your mom does not mind, you can help your dad with your good advice.