confidence tips?
ok, im not a shy guy. im not a "fatty". and im definitely not a player. im actually not that bad lookin. i have no problem talkin to girls. i can joke around and everything. im just bad when it comes to flirting, dating, or doing anything outside of school. ive never asked a girl for her number. or for a date. and the times i asked for a dance/a girlfriend, both times shot down.
since then, ive been scared of doing anything like that. ive come to realize that i have no reason to be scared of them saying no, and im pretty sure im not scared of them saying yes. even if a girl does say no, i know i can get over it. its just asking thats got me bothered, which is the thing i think most guys like me have trouble with.
im looking for anything to boost my confidence, and help me get off the bench. any tips, things to keep in mind, tricks, catchy quotes or stuff like that would help, please! i need some answers!
the reason i ask is because, for the longest time, ive had a crush on one girl. ONE girl. ive never ever wanted to be with anyone else. she is the only one i want to get to know better, or get close to.
and thats all i want! is to get to know her better! but to do that, i need to talk to her outside of class, at least thats how i see it.
and im almost positive she likes me. whenever we talk she always gives those little hints, like hair flipping, brushing up against me, leaning in close, and talking kinda quiet among other things.
i know that she probably expects me to do something. and what kind of guy would i be to let her down? please, please PLEASE help. thanks.
oh yeah, heres me: http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v651/agent1255mlh/portraitpic.jpg
not a "fatty" as someone rudely suggested previously. i think pansy is more accurate….
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Your picture is very nice. You remind me of my first boyfriend. But, to get to your situation. Ask the girl out that you have cared about for so long. It seems to me as though she does like you. You don’t have to start something really serious at first. Start out as good friends caring about her and that will make her feel better about you, too.
flirting is all in the eyes. some girls like touching but some dont and u dont wanna do that to the ones who dont (take ur ass to court) so if u wanna stay out of the book of local sex offenders then just use ur eyes and ur smile. tilt ur head down a lil so that u r forcing ur eyes to the top of ur eyelids…but not like a creepy way. and put on a small confident smile
You don’t need a ton of confidence to ask a girl out. If you want to dance with a girl, just ask. You got nothing to lose. If she says yes, awesome. If no, don’t worry. At least you tried. Then maybe ask another girl. hehe (:
no matter who you are there will always be a hater, so you might as well be yourself
Okay well I’m a girl, so I’ll try to help you out here…
Whenever you’re around a girl, that best thing to do is to be yourself! I also like guys that can make me laugh. You sound like a pretty cool guy and sooner or later you’re going to find just the right girl. Some things that are big turn offs, with any girl:
1. Bad hygeine. No girl likes a guy who hasn’t showered in a week or doesn’t brush his teeth.
2. Perverted thoughts. It’s degrading.
3. Disrespect. Don’t act like the "big dog around" or like you own her, treat her with respect and kindness.
Telling her she is beautiful really helps too.
Confidence is something you slowly build up {trust me, if anyone knows, I DO} …..if you practice being yourself all the time, no embarrassments, no holding back from talking to that special girl….then it’ll start to come naturally.
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